Happy belated birthday, Virgos! If you are like me and into Astrology and the Zodiac signs, then you know there is definitely some truth to that! My post today is about Virgos, both titans and goddesses. There are several reasons why I am inspired to write this post; the most important reason is for the many Virgos clients that we attract to our goddess sanctuary.
Here is a quick education about Virgos based on my personal experience with both the goddesses and titans I work with and that are in my life.
Virgo is an earth sign born between August 23 and September 22. They are generally very compatible with other Earth signs like my Taurus self and Capricorns. The water signs of Pisces and Cancers are compatible with Virgos.
Most of the Virgos in my life are very intelligent, very analytical, very organized, very detail-oriented, very practical, very efficient, very loyal, very reliable, and very hardworking. They are also sensitive, caring, kind, honest at heart, polished in mannerism, and generous. Like me, they like to take good care of their health and appearance, as well as express their love for all living things (like my Nini Love), the elderly, and the unfortunate.
All the traits above have earned Virgos respect and admiration in their careers and with their friends and family. However, when it comes to their love life, that area requires some attention and effort.
Virgos are perfectionists and are very critical of themselves and of others. It is not so easy to please them or seduce them when it comes to love. They are conservative, private, and shy with their emotions, which can make them come across as uncaring, unemotional, cold, dismissive, stand-offish, and not capable of being passionate. It takes a long time for a Virgo to trust you. They will observe you carefully and take the time to get to know you before they let you into their world. Sometimes, they don’t let you in at all!
Because of their need for structure, routine and being in control of everything, Virgos rarely let go and let loose to just live life in the moment. Their mind is always actively analyzing or thinking about improving or fixing something. This can come across as boring and predictable for those carefree, creative, and spontaneous potential romantic partners.
It seems most Virgos I know are attracted to drama because they like to solve problems and have the desire to rescue a person or situation. For this reason, if they are not self aware, they will attract romantic partners that are less than their equal, need rescuing, or some fine-tuning. Perhaps deep down inside, they are insecure and want a partner who needs them so that they can feel more confident and in control? Or it could be that they do not love and value themselves enough to know their worth and that they deserve better? This, I do not know, and maybe I never will since Virgos do not always express their inner truth and real emotions.
In my opinion, Virgos are very gentle, insightful, sensual, and passionate; rich in emotions; highly sensitive; and full of love and kindness to give to others. The biggest lesson in romance that they must learn is to simply trust and follow their hearts and not allow their over-analytical heads to take over. Most importantly, they must love themselves and know that they are worthy of a wonderful and loving partner who is their balanced equal and opposite complement. They must learn not to settle for good enough, but to only settle for great enough! There is a difference between needs and desires. When Virgos can get in touch with their higher self, they will choose partners that desire them instead of partners who need them.
If you are in a relationship with a Virgo currently or are interested in dating a Virgo, this is a good link to learn more about them: http://www.astrology-zodiac-signs.com/zodiac-signs/virgo/
I hope my dear Virgo readers do not take this post too personally. This is 100% based on my personal experiences and interactions with the ones in my life that I so admire and respect. I love them all! I am surrounded by them in my life! The message I am trying to share here is for Virgos to allow some space for their heart to grow and explore the journey of love.
Are you a Virgo? I would love to hear you share your thoughts. Until next time.